{"id":1342,"date":"2016-08-02T23:11:44","date_gmt":"2016-08-02T13:11:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stoic-stonebraker.202-74-66-189.plesk.page\/index.php\/2016\/08\/02\/125\/"},"modified":"2016-08-02T23:11:44","modified_gmt":"2016-08-02T13:11:44","slug":"125","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nervous-cohen.202-74-66-189.plesk.page\/index.php\/2016\/08\/02\/125\/","title":{"rendered":"Shared Parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\\\"font: 16px\/1.6 \\'Open Sans\\', sans-serif; margin: 0px 0px 1.25rem; padding: 0px; color: #616161; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; widows: 1; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-rendering: optimizeLegibility; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\\\">Many parents attend interviews for a Family Report and say they would like a shared parenting arrangement. So what is shared parenting and what makes it successful? In whose best interest is shared parenting and how does it impact on children?<\/p>\n<p style=\\\"font: 16px\/1.6 \\'Open Sans\\', sans-serif; margin: 0px 0px 1.25rem; padding: 0px; color: #616161; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; widows: 1; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-rendering: optimizeLegibility; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\\\">Shared parenting allows parents to both play a role in a child or children\u2019s lives. It is an arrangement whereby the parents share the time the children spend with each parent. It can be on an equal 50:50 basis or based on a routine of days per week the child or children spend with both parents.<\/p>\n<p style=\\\"font: 16px\/1.6 \\'Open Sans\\', sans-serif; margin: 0px 0px 1.25rem; padding: 0px; color: #616161; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; widows: 1; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-rendering: optimizeLegibility; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\\\">Some characteristics that assist good shared parenting arrangements are;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The parents ability to focus on the child or children\u2019s needs<\/li>\n<li>An ability for each parent to maintain a respectful relationship with each other despite previous anger or disappointment following the end of a relationship<\/li>\n<li>An ability for both parents to maintain similar routines, boundaries and behaviour management techniques for the child or children and<\/li>\n<li>An ability for parents to communicate and keep the adult issues separate from the co-parenting relationship<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\\\"font: 16px\/1.6 \\'Open Sans\\', sans-serif; margin: 0px 0px 1.25rem; padding: 0px; color: #616161; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; widows: 1; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-rendering: optimizeLegibility; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\\\">Some factors that impact on a successful shared parenting arrangement are;<img class=\\\"size-medium wp-image-121 alignright\\\" src=\\\"https:\/\/stoic-stonebraker.202-74-66-189.plesk.page\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/image-20160527-888-1u40ec1-300x210.jpg\\\" alt=\\\"image-20160527-888-1u40ec1\\\" width=\\\"300\\\" height=\\\"210\\\" \/><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>A history of drug or alcohol addiction by one or both parents and the parents insight into how this impacts children<\/li>\n<li>Family violence and a history of child abuse<\/li>\n<li>Parents who have difficulty separating adult issues from the needs of their child or children<\/li>\n<li>The age of the children and their relationship with both parents<\/li>\n<li>the geographical distance between where the parents reside and<\/li>\n<li>The parents willingness to support and promote children maintaining a relationship with the other parent<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\\\"font: 16px\/1.6 \\'Open Sans\\', sans-serif; margin: 0px 0px 1.25rem; padding: 0px; color: #616161; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; widows: 1; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-rendering: optimizeLegibility; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\\\">There are many advantages for shared custody but there are also many difficulties that need to be considered and managed. Some ground work by both parents is often required before a shared parenting arrangement is recommended.<\/p>\n<p style=\\\"font: 16px\/1.6 \\'Open Sans\\', sans-serif; margin: 0px 0px 1.25rem; padding: 0px; color: #616161; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; widows: 1; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-rendering: optimizeLegibility; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\\\"><strong><em>Written by Denise Giles, Family Consultant @ <a href=\\\"http:\/\/www.scopeconsultancy.com.au\/about-us\/\\\">Scope Consultancy<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\\\"font: 16px\/1.6 \\'Open Sans\\', sans-serif; margin: 0px 0px 1.25rem; padding: 0px; color: #616161; text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; widows: 1; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-rendering: optimizeLegibility; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\\\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many parents attend interviews for a Family Report and say they would like a shared parenting arrangement. 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